The Exception

So often we are the rule, we forget what it feels like to be the exception to the rule. We forget that we are indeed "special", unique and quirky. That we are different, which makes us beautiful. There is no sense in trying to blend in to the crowd, Not stand out so much, keep your opinions to yourself, because all of the things that make us stand out, our voice, our unique sense of style, even if it doesnt match, or " go with the trend" our beautiful minds, hearts, feelings ( no matter how deep or emotional ) our ability to connect with complete strangers, and offer a true part of ourselves, no matter how big or small, ALL of these things are what make us human, are what make us so incredibly beautiful as individuals.

Dont be the rule, anymore. Be the exception. You see the thing is, you already are the exception. You already have a light inside of you that shines so brightly it could warm the coldest heart, A voice so pure it could make the skeptic a believer, eyes so wide and full of a thirst for life you could bring any hermit out of their shell, you just need to embrace it, and dont be afraid to show it. Embrace who you are, all of your flaws ( for they are the most beautiful part of you), embrace your differences, embrace your HUMANITY. And soon the " exception " could be the RULE.

I am evolving, care to join me?

Active Listening Experiment

ACTIVE LISTENING

To give into ones feelings and feel everything around you with deep passion, now there is such beauty in that. To feel that homeless person on the street when you pass by, look them in the eyes, and feel their emotions through their eyes, imagine their life and what they must be going through in such a difficult situation. To look at the old woman on the bus and her strength and struggles, to see all they she must of gone through in her lifetime and although nearly impossible, imagine yourself there. To look your friend in the eyes, when they are speaking to you and FEEL them, truly feel them, don’t think about what it is that you want to say next, don’t think about yourself, or your problems or what you are going to eat today. TRULY FEEL THEM, listen intently to every word and relate to them, offer them insight and feedback, read their emotions, show kindness and be caring. To know those around you and feel them is to know yourself.

You would be amazed at what you learn by learning other people. You learn through them, see through their eyes, and in turn feel new emotions through them that you have never felt before. Everyone perceives and feels things differently so to try to feel and see through someone else, gives you a different perception. To unselfishly see through someone is a beautiful thing. To humble yourself to those around you and bring your feet back down to earth, also a very beautiful thing. Don’t be afraid to connect with those around you, and everyone you come in contact with on a daily basis, offer them a warm smile, a kind heart and an attentive ear. We are all on this earth together, and if not to love and learn then for what. Everyday you have the power to affect peoples lives, every day you have the power to change the world, one emotion and one random act of kindness at a time. When you are at the grocery store, when you are at work, even when you walk across the street. Your every day actions and reactions have a direct impact and affect on the people you come in contact with

I challenge you to be deeper, to think harder. To put the material

things behind you or out of your mind,

and operate on a deeper level of consciousness

try it and see if you dont feel something different for a change

lesson #2

okay, so this time pictures are sure to follow for BERKLEY CA. but before that, I just must state that lesson number 2 is an important one. STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF. always, and anytime you are faced with a decision, always stay true to yourself, be kind to those around you and follow your heart, though I would like to believe that the last one is the best piece of advice, it is unfortunately the hardest one to follow because your heart often misleads you, but at least your intentions are true. If you stay true to yourself than you will have NO REGRETS. pictures soon to follow of this recent journey. Though most of them will be night photos :)